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Who Run The World? Not Women, Sadly, But Here Are Some Trying To Change That

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Update: We updated this slideshow in honor of the upcoming International Women's Day. Two new female presidents have recently been elected — in Estonia and Switzerland.

Update (November 15, 2016): As we all know by now, Hillary Clinton fell short in her bid to become the first woman to serve as president of the United States. If elected, she would have joined a small club of female world leaders; just 16 women are currently elected heads or government or state worldwide, according to UN Women. Ahead, an updated look at those women in power across the globe.

The following story was originally published on March 8, 2016.

The world is made up of close to 200 countries. Fewer than 20 are led by a woman who was elected to the role.

Many nations, including the United States, have never voted a woman into their highest office. As it stands today, 17 women are serving in elected head of state or head of government roles, according to UN Women's count. And it's not just heads of state and government that fall short in a count of women in power. On average, 22% of seats in parliaments worldwide were filled by women as of last year.

While the numbers have improved in recent decades — the percentage of women in parliaments nearly doubled between 1995 and 2015, according to UN Women — the world still has a long way to go before the makeup of political bodies and leadership reflects the population as a whole.

"We need to speed up," Begona Lasagabaster, chief of the leadership and governance section for UN Women, told Refinery29. "It’s painfully slow."

Greater representation by women in political office "reflects the reality of a society," and, more importantly, sparks discussion and policies that promote gender equality across government and society as a whole, Lasagabaster said.

"The fact that we are talking, we are raising and presenting different things obliges men to think about these issues," she said. "[Women] bring their reality, their different nature of thinking, but in the end, they [also] oblige the institution [to change.]"

Lasagabaster knows firsthand the impact that getting more women involved in politics can make. When she was elected to the Spanish Parliament in 1996, she estimates that fewer than 20% of the seats were held by women. By the time she left office 12 years later, they made up nearly a third of the body.

“You could see the difference, you could feel the difference," she recalled. "The fact that we had a critical mass meant we were talking about things that maybe we wouldn't think about [without female members of parliament], like [tax rates] of basic hygiene products of women."

There are many barriers keeping more women from being elected worldwide. Support and interest from political parties, media, funders, and the population at large can be difficult to secure. In some places, female candidates are targeted with threats and violence. And election systems like the one here in the U.S. can create tough paths to victory for female politicians.

"It’s very hard for women to break through in that electoral system that pits candidate against candidate, especially when the electorate might be biased and not vote for women or have perspectives around the role of women in politics which disadvantage them," Julie Ballington, UN Women's policy advisor on political participation, told Refinery29.

Some institutional efforts aimed at getting more women in office, including quotas or commitments to gender equality embraced by post-conflict countries as they reshape their political systems, have helped. But even countries that have made strides in electing female candidates sometimes suffer setbacks.

“It’s a continued battle to sustain the numbers and to increase them, as well," Ballington said.

Still, there have been some bright spots. The Marshall Islands, for example, elected its first female leader in history earlier this year. And, should Hillary Clinton win the Democratic nomination, the United States could have its first real shot at putting a woman in the White House later this year.

Ahead, a look at the 17 women currently serving as an elected head of state or head of government. Check back for updates when more progress is made in the push for gender parity in politics worldwide.

Estonia — President Doris Leuthard

Elected: 2017

Photo: Thomas Hodel/Epa/REX/Shutterstock.

Estonia — President Kersti Kaljulaid

Elected: 2016

Photo: Olivier Hoslet/Epa/REX/Shutterstock.

U.K. — Prime Minister Theresa May
In office since: 2016

Photo: Kirsty Wigglesworth/Getty Images.

The Marshall Islands — President Hilda Heine
Elected: 2016

Photo: Courtesy of the Embassy of the Republic of the Marshall Islands.

Nepal — President Bidhya Devi Bhandari
Elected: 2015

Photo: PRAKASH MATHEMA/ AFP/ Getty Images.

Namibia — Prime Minister Saara Kuugongelwa-Amadhila
In office since: 2015

Photo: Courtesy of the Parliament of the Republic of Namibia.

Republic of Mauritius — President Bibi Ameenah Firdaus Gurib-Fakim
Elected: 2015

Photo: Astrid Stawiarz/ Getty Images

Croatia — President Kolinda Grabar-Kitarovic
Elected: 2015

Photo: ELVIS BARUKCIC/ AFP/ Getty Images.

Poland — Prime Minister Beata Szydło
In office since: 2015

Photo: Krystian Dobuszynski/ NurPhoto/ AP Photo.

Malta — President Marie Louise Coleiro Preca
Elected: 2014

Photo: Matthew Mirabelli/ AFP/ Getty Images.

Chile — President Verónica Michelle Bachelet
Elected: 2014

Photo: Vatican Pool/ Getty Images.

Norway — Prime Minister Erna Solberg
In office since: 2013

Photo: Simon Dawson/ Bloomberg/ Getty Images.

Lithuania — President Dalia Grybauskaitė
Elected: 2009

Photo: Isopix/ AP Photo.

Bangladesh — Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina
In office since: 2009

Photo: Richard Drew/ AP Photo.

Liberia — President Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf
Elected: 2006

Photo: Spencer Platt/ Getty Images.

Germany — Federal Chancellor Angela Merkel
Elected: 2005

Photo: Ukas Michael/ Pool/ Getty Images.

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The Best Wine Pairing For Your Face Mask

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Some things in this world are just made for each other. Like mac and cheese. Or Barack and Michelle. And, of course, face masks and wine. Even if you only have a drugstore jar of clay and a bottle of Barefoot Sauvignon Blanc, the combination is enough to make your Tuesday night so much more luxurious. You might be thinking, Hey, isn’t alcohol bad for your skin? Three rights make a left, but one wrong and one right just cancel each other out. Okay, yes, but we live by the motto of "everything in moderation." Maybe don't down the whole box of Franzia, then attempt a magnetic-mask number; just channel Oprah and live your best life.

Ahead, we put together a special wine-and-mask pairing menu for you to pull out on nights in. Whoever said beauty is pain clearly never tried this.

Bordeaux
Pair a clay mask with any full-bodied, earthy wine. The richness of a bordeaux calls for some slow sipping and savoring while the mask does its work for 10 to 15 minutes.

There’s nothing quite like putting mud on your face — no, really. The classic clay mask has a ton of pore-cleaning, skin-tightening benefits, but make sure to keep it away from your mouth region if you still want to be able to open wide for that wine gulp.

L'Oréal Pure Clay Mask, $8.98, available at Walmart.

Portable Wine
If your peel-off mask is feeling extra-tight, it's time to bring in the boxed-wine-with-a-straw move. May we recommend a crisp pinot grigio?

This futuristic silver mask not only keeps skin looking young, but the peel-off quality lets us feel like we're back in elementary school arts-and-crafts class.

GlamGlow GravityMud Firming Treatment, $69, available at Sephora.

Champagne
Pop open a bottle and pass the bubbly mask. (C'mon, you knew we had to go for the obvious with this one.) And think of the Instagram shots you'll get out of it!

There are few skin care-related things more exciting than slapping on a carbonated mask. It’s like being in a bubblebath and giving yourself a bubble beard — except it makes you look way better when all is said and done.

E.L.F. Hydrating Bubble Mask, $14, available at E.L.F.

Cheongju
Sheet masks are now the standard for face masks, but let’s not forget their roots in South Korea. Good when sipped both cold and room temp, Cheongju is a delicious South Korean wine made from rice. Haven't heard of it? That's the point. You may be wearing what's now become a “basic” mask, but your drink will be anything but.

This isn't your average sheet mask, either. To open it, you fold the package in half and squeeze until you've popped the chamber that holds the hydrating essence. Massage it all around so the cotton sheet soaks it all in, then place it on your face for some deep moisture.

Belif Aqua Bomb Sheet Mask, $8, available at Sephora.

Sherry
We know, sounds like something your grandma might drink, but if you’ve never had a glass of sweet, rich sherry as a nightcap after a long day, you’re missing out. Apply your sleeping mask, get in bed with a good book and a glass, and slip into a happy place.

Overnight masks are the stuff of skin-care slacker dreams. Cleanse, pat on instead of your moisturizer, and hit the hay. Wake up to glowing, silky-soft skin. Doesn't get easier than that.

Korres Greek Yoghurt Advanced Nourishing Sleeping Facial, $19, available at Sephora.

Pinot Noir
It’s the catch-all wine pairing for just about any food you're eating, so it follows that its mask match would be one that works for every skin type: an exfoliating version.

This cute little packet is packed with physical exfoliators that gently scrub off all the dead, dry gunk holding your complexion back from being its best self.

Nügg Exfoliating Face Mask, $3.29, available at Nügg.

Riesling
Just imagine it: robe on, feet up, and a nice cold glass of light, smooth wine in hand. Only thing that could improve upon the sitch? A mask that wraps your face in moisture, obviously.

We wouldn't lie about something so good: This moisturizing mask smells exactly like hot cocoa. And as we all know, the only pairing better than masks and wine is wine and chocolate.

Perricone MD Cocoa Moisture Mask, $69, available at Sephora.

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This Saint Laurent Ad Is Being Called 'Sexist' By Parisians, But Why?

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The fashion advertising industry knows controversy, good and bad. We highlight their wins — i.e. using different models or new-wave celebrities in progressive and game-changing campaigns — and we report on their lows, like Saint Laurent's latest campaign, which features thin models in a couple of rather compromising positions, wearing little to no clothing. If that sounds about right to you, then you're familiar with how marketing works. Or, you're wise enough to know that sex is still a selling point for European fashion houses. But Parisians aren't having it.

In several tweets under the hashtag '#YSLRetireTaPubDegradante ', which translates to 'YSL, Remove Your Degrading Ad,' users call upon the label to take down its latest advertisements. The ads, which come from designer Anthony Vaccarello's debut collection for the brand, feature one model in between the two states of sitting with her legs open and crossed, wearing roller skate heels, with her bottom facing the camera. Another sees a model hunched over a stool, in the same roller skate heels, with no pants on.

If you consider the history of Saint Laurent's advertisements, and Europe's laissez-faire attitude toward sexuality and how to incorporate it into an image, the spots may not seem all that out of place. But, longstanding fans of the brand are comparing it with advertisements of the label's Golden Era, the era of Yves Saint Laurent. In one tweet, a user compares a YSL ad from 1967 to the controversial ad today, pointing out the 50-year differences between how the company represents women. The '60s saw the invention of Yves Saint Laurent's iconic 'Le Smoking ' suit, and the accompanying advertisements (included in the tweet) became somewhat like posters for Paris' second-wave feminism movement.

And then there's the ARPP, the French advertising self-regulatory organization, which wants the images gone A.S.A.P. "We asked the brand and the ad displayer to make changes to these visuals as soon as possible," said ARPP director Stephane Martin to Reuters. Adding that the thinness of the models was also of grave concern, Martin says the advertisements are a serious breach of industry-set rules that hold labels like Saint Laurent accountable for the "dignity and respect in the representation of the person." (In 2015, the label was also in hot water when its ads featuring model Kiki Willem came under fire for similar reasons.)

We've reached out to Saint Laurent for comment and will update this post when we hear back.

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Chrissy Teigen Reveals A Postpartum Symptom We Don't Talk About Enough

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Today, Chrissy Teigen opened up about her experience with postpartum depression and anxiety in an essay for Glamour magazine that's equal parts raw and powerful. She describes feeling depleted, never hungry, just plain unhappy, and in constant physical pain after her daughter Luna's birth — all with the Chrissy candor that makes us obsessed with her in the first place.

Thankfully, Teigen eventually saw a doctor who was able to diagnose her, which was a relief, but the months before that hurt, physically and emotionally, she says. "Getting out of bed to get to set on time was painful," Teigen writes. "My lower back throbbed; my ­shoulders — even my wrists — hurt." One symptom of PPD is feeling physical aches and pains — like stomach aches, headaches, or muscle and back pain — and it's also a symptom of anxiety and depression. Mental tension can lead you to be physically tense, too, says Catherine Monk, PhD, Associate Professor of Medical Psychology (in Psychiatry and Obstetrics and Gynecology) at Columbia University. "Over time, that tenseness could cause a back ache or overall tension and discomfort," Dr. Monk says.

There's also some evidence that your immune system isn't properly regulated when you're depressed, so you could feel achy like you have the flu, she says. And hormones can play a big part, because your stress hormones can't regulate either — which makes your body more alert and strained, like you're in a "chronic fight or flight" scenario, Dr. Monk says. Some new moms are used to being able to work out and get a good amount of sleep — and then, suddenly, they aren't, so there's a "change in relief" that contributes to depression, she says.

Teigen describes going in circles with doctors and specialists at the hospital, like she "was in an episode of Grey's Anatomy," just to figure out why she was in so much physical pain. "Maybe it was a kidney infection? No one could figure it out," she says. "I saw rheumatoid doctors for the wrist pain; we thought it might be rheumatoid arthritis. I felt nauseated all the time, so I saw a GI doctor. I wondered: Am I making this all up? Is this pain even real anymore? " Only later, when Teigen says she was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety, did she make the link that her physical pain was caused by her anxiety. "Unfortunately, when medical health providers are treating women during pregnancy or postpartum, there's so much pressure to focus on the baby's physical health, not how [the mother] feels," Dr. Monk says. "What's hard to get [doctors] to ask about is their mind and brain, rather than their body."

Grey day ballet

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Between 70 and 80% of women feel negative feelings or mood swings (a.k.a. the "baby blues") after they give birth, which can make it tough to pinpoint postpartum depression. Up to one in seven women experience postpartum depression, according to the American Psychological Association, but Teigen says she felt like there was a stigma just mentioning the word "depression." Postpartum depression also manifests in completely different ways depending on the person, so the symptoms can be all over the place.

In most cases, depression is treated through behavioral interventions, like mindfulness practices and therapy, Dr. Monk says. Medication can be the best option in severe cases, she adds, and Teigen mentions starting an antidepressant in her essay. "Given that a woman is in good physical health, mindful walks, yoga, pilates, and swimming can help ease the body as well as the psychological mental problem," Dr. Monk says, adding that massage, acupuncture, and saunas can help, too.

Teigen's essay is powerful because it shows that anyone can feel down, even if they seem totally fine — and feeling down can be a total mind/body experience. "This is a really good example of how we all should be thinking about a person's mind and body together — particularly with obstetrics and pediatrics, the experts that have most contact with women," Dr. Monk says. "They, too, can ask about mental health, as well as whether [their patients] can move around with their C-section scar."

As for Teigen, she tweeted today that talking about her depression has made people ask how she's doing. Let that be your cue to not hesitate to ask the new moms in your life how they're feeling — both physically and emotionally.

If you are experiencing postpartum depression, please call the Postpartum Support Helpline.

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Pitbull's Camila Cabello Collab Was Meant For Britney Spears

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Get ready to have a new song stuck in your head. Pitbull, master crafter of earworms, is about to unleash a new tune unto the world. The song, "Hey Ma," is on the soundtrack for The Fate of the Furious, the eighth installment in the car-racing movie franchise that just can't seem to die. In the catchy tune, Pitbull teams with ex-Fifth Harmony member Camila Cabello and Colombian singer and rapper J Balvin. Only that wasn't the original plan. In a new interview with Radio.com, Mr. 305 explains the detour that the song took and who was originally on the track.

Mr. International told Radio.com that the first version of the song actually featured Britney Spears and Romeo Santos. In fact, the team behind Fast and the Furious loved it. Until a new version got recorded, that is. Looks like there was just more magic in the high-octane recording from Cabello and Balvin, who shared a preview of the track on Instagram.

"Funny story behind that," Pitbull told Radio.com. "At first, it was me and Romeo Santos, Britney Spears was on the record. [The] Fast and Furious [team] ends up loving the record. And they brought on board J Balvin and Camila Cabello. So, it's been an interesting journey. To watch it go on to become the intro to the movie — the first huge movie franchise to shoot in Cuba — is an amazing honor."

How did Spears take the news? There was no diva hissy fit. Instead, she was 100% professional and even suggested that her vocals be part of a remix. Two versions of this scorcher? Count us in.

"It was an honor to be able to work with Britney. She was a great sport, she’s been in the business for years," Pitbull explained. "She said, 'Don't even worry about that. We'll use it for the remix, or we'll do another record together.'"

Spears' reaction only goes to show what a consummate professional she is. And if fans are getting two tunes out of it, it's all for the better.

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Did You Notice This Weird Connection Between A Walk To Remember & This Is Us?

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If you consider yourself a romantic, you likely get weepy over Jack (Milo Ventimiglia) and Rebecca's (Mandy Moore) sweet scenes on This Is Us. If you're someone who adores cheesy romance flicks, then you likely sobbed for days over another Mandy Moore venture: A Walk To Remember. The latter stars Moore as Jamie, a "good girl" who decides to live life to the fullest after she learns she has terminal cancer. "Living life to the fullest" includes a whirlwind romance with reformed "bad boy" Landon (Shane West), who stops being an asshat long enough to give Jamie the best (and last) years of her life. Both A Walk To Remember and This Is Us have sad endings to their respective love stories: while Jamie dies in the Sparks adaptation, it's Jack who passes away on This Is Us. (Though exactly how he dies remains a mystery.) Now fans think there's yet another connection between the NBC series and the romantic drama.

Redditor Caitywaity noticed that This Is Us may have borrowed a line of dialogue from the 2002 movie. They point out that in the episode "Jack Pearson's Son," Rebecca tries to calm Jack down by saying "You're acting like a crazy person, what's going on?" Caitywaity noticed that Moore said the very same line of dialogue — in a very similar way — during a scene opposite West's Landon in A Walk To Remember. You can check out the scene from the movie below. (Swooning over Landon and Jamie optional, but expected.)

The dialogue isn't exactly super specific, but it's definitely possible that the show wanted to insert a wink to fans of Moore's famous movie — after all, only diehard fans will notice this specific line.

There's also another reason why the connection may not be a coincidence: This Is Us may have included the Walk To Remember line in celebration of the film's 15th anniversary. Moore and West actually got together with the film's director Adam Shankman to celebrate the milestone back in January. The This Is Us line would only be a few weeks behind the film's anniversary — the movie hit theaters on January 25, 2002, while the episode "Jack Pearson's Son" aired on February 14th, 2007.

This Is Us and A Walk To Remember will forever be bonded by Moore and the fact that both have made us cry way too many times. Here's hoping the writers of This Is Us really did play homage to the tearjerker that came before it: it's only fitting.

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Channing Tatum Is In Full Support Of Short Hair

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Unless you live in a world in which you get to wake up next to a mega-talented hairstylist every morning (hey, dreams really do come true for some lucky ones), chances are your S.O. has little to say about your snip decisions. And you likely plan your big haircuts around what you, and you alone, want.

But not actress Jenna Dewan-Tatum (and one-half of reigning Cutest Couple in the World). When she debuted an undeniably cool angled lob late last year, we thought she was merely jumping on the L.A. trend train. Turns out, she got the motivation from an unlikely source: her husband, Channing Tatum. Jenna told PeopleStyle in a recent interview that Channing had been encouraging her to chop her hair off for quite some time — a welcome response, especially if you've ever asked the age-old "should I or shouldn't I?" question we all pose to our friends, family, dry cleaner, that 0ne rep at the Sephora counter...

"He’s the opposite of most men," she told the publication. "Most men like long hair, but he thought it would be a really good idea [for me] to go short. So he was excited. He was like, ‘You finally did it!'"

Obviously, Channing isn't the only reason she got the cut — her daughter played a role, too. Like most of us, she wanted something that was easier to style because she doesn't have time for anything more. Welcome to the club.

"I still to this day haven’t actually done my hair, unless I have some sort of event or meeting," she said. "I tell everyone who cuts my hair, ‘You need to cut it in a way that I can shower and go because I will not do myself, I don’t have time.’ So it just works. It’s a lot easier to manage."

So, she now has more time to spend staring at Channing? Sounds good to us.

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Why Our Obsession With Little Women Makes Me Uncomfortable

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When the Little Women franchise first started in 2014 with its L.A. installment, I didn’t think that it would stand the test of time. Three years later, I’ve been proven sorely wrong by the reality show that follows the lives of women with dwarfism. It’s still going strong, with season 6 currently underway. Installments in Atlanta, New York, and most recently, Dallas, have cropped up. Terra Jolé, who led the L.A. cast, enjoyed multiple seasons of her own spin-off called Terra’s Little Family. She was a also a contestant on season 23 of Dancing with the Stars. The franchise has proven to be a hit for Lifetime.

I’ve watched scattered episodes of each iteration of the series here and there. My best friend actually forced me to watch the entire second season of Little Women: Atlanta. Part of the reason I was apprehensive about the show’s success is because I don’t trust an industry that consistently prioritizes a narrow margin of beauty to do right by women who fall outside that margin in any capacity. Surprisingly, the show doesn’t focus exclusively on the women’s heights — at least not explicitly. Like any other reality show, Little Women gets the meat of its content from the friendships and relationship drama amongst the cast. We get to see them as mothers, daughters, sisters, and lovers.

But there is still something to be said for the fact that these little women simply being normal is a spectacle in itself. After all, that’s the premise of the show. I don’t get the sense that I’m being forced to watch the entertainment equivalent of medical exams that I may have experienced if the show was on TLC a different network. But the way the cameras on Little Women manage to catch the quizzical stares of bystanders when the women congregate in public spaces, or how they linger a little too long on one of them struggling to get onto a floatation device or motorcycle during a day of relaxation feels like a small push into some weird exhibitionist territory.

And then in webosphere there are memes like this one that layers hoe-shaming on top of ridiculing Amanda and Andrea Salinas, who are known on the urban circuit as twerk performers. It’s these moments that make me feel like a bystander in an exploitative situation. And that's not really my thing.

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9 Famous Women On What It Will Take To Create A REAL Democracy

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There is a positive trend in the air — a sense that paradigms are shifting and women are rising up and awakening. Evidence of this includes the 5 million people who participated in the historic Women’s March (both in the U.S. and around the world), and the unprecedented number of women signing up to run for office. Women are energized, engaged, and activated.

This International Women’s Day, March 8th, is an opportunity to build on that momentum and solidarity and encourage women to do what this year’s theme proclaims: Be Bold for Change. Even though women have made economic, political, and social strides over the years, there continue to be enormous inequities and challenges that remain for women nationally and globally. Shockingly, in many parts of the world today, girls and women continue to lack economic opportunity, adequate health care and education, and suffer horrific abuses such as child marriage, female genital mutilation, femicide, trafficking, honor killings, and other atrocities. In the U.S. and internationally, women continue to experience many varied forms of oppression, discrimination and violence. (According to the UN, 1 in 3 women across the globe will experience physical or sexual violence in her lifetime.)

As I spotlighted in the interviews I conducted for my book What Will it Take to Make a Woman President? Conversations About Women, Leadership & Power, and in my new online platform, What Will It Take, women are glaringly underrepresented in positions of leadership across all sectors, whether it’s in politics, the corporate world, the media, or other areas. And in terms of women’s political representation worldwide, the U.S. ranks an embarrassing 104th place in terms of women in national legislatures. Though women are over half the population, we are not adequately represented at the tables of influence where critical decisions are being made. It took years of struggle for women to finally get the right to vote in 1920. How long and what will it take for women to reach full economic, social, and political equality?

The global community is becoming increasingly aware that we will clearly need women’s voices and visions to solve the host of problems facing our planet, and that empowering girls and women is interconnected with other important issues and helps the whole of humanity. Because this isn’t just about women’s equality but also about ensuring diversity of perspective and a reflective democracy. And as men increasingly stand alongside us as they did at the Women’s March, there is a reframing that these are not just "women’s issues" — they are human issues — and that the status of women is intersectional with other forms of oppression. This sense of alignment with men and other marginalized communities is vital to forming a more authentic, effective and powerful movement — one that takes a strong stand for equality, love, and tolerance for all people.

As a freelance journalist and author, I have had the privilege of interviewing some of the world's most renowned and influential women. To celebrate International Women’s Day, I want to share this collection of some of their insights in the hope that their calls to action and wisdom will inspire us to “be bold for change.”

"There are multiple levels of leadership. Your leadership in your own family, your community, how you lead your life, how you present yourself in the world as one who is willing to use what you have to give to others. That to me [is] the defining meaning of what it takes to be a leader."

—Oprah Winfrey

Media Mogul, Philanthropist, Founder of the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls

Photo: Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage.

“I feel like we need a Rosie the Riveter of our generation. By the end of World War II, six million women entered the workplace, and that forever changed our US economy and women's roles in it. I feel like we need a similar call to action to say, 'Women, we need you to be advocates, to be heard on the issues you care about, to be voting, to be running for office, to be part of decision making.' Imagine if six million more women were voting today, that aren't voting. If six million more women were holding their elected leaders accountable, that are not holding them accountable today — six million more women at decision making tables all across the country. That would be a really powerful thing.”

—Kirsten Gillibrand

New York State Senator, founder of Off the Sidelines

Photo: Daniel Zuchnik/WireImage.

I think vulnerability is power. I like vulnerable and open people, and I think when you're that way you are actually being very brave. By presenting the real truth of yourself, who you really are, you change the molecules in the room.”

—Amy Poehler

Actress, Writer, Founder of Smart Girls

Photo: Kevin Mazur/WireImage.

“Take the tools and the skills and the resources of every kind that you have, and go out, find something that you know is not fair, is not just, and begin to change it. In whatever way you know, in whatever way is appropriate for you, but don’t ignore it. Don’t think it’s somebody else’s job to change it. Confront it in your own way, and make it your job to make change.”

—Anita Hill

Attorney, Author, Academic

Photo: Jason LaVeris/FilmMagic.

“I really do believe that women have an intuitive sense, which is very important in leadership. If you have a vision and you have knowledge and you have a plan, you know what decision you need to make intuitively. And that confidence is contagious. If you act in that decisive way, people will have confidence in you, and they'll follow your lead. You will be lifted up and you will lift others up.”

—Nancy Pelosi

Democratic Leader, First Female Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives

Here’s the one thing that I worry about: we’re not willing to make mistakes. We’re very nervous about making a wrong move and we worry that if we make the wrong move, then the consequences will mean that we never recover from them. It’s okay — in fact, it’s better than okay — to make mistakes, really big mistakes sometimes. So I would want to say to young women, ‘Hey, run for office, even if you think you’re going to lose. Take a hard class, even if you’re going to get a C in it. Go ahead and follow love, even if it doesn’t work out.’ Just a little bit of courage to make mistakes, because that strikes me as where all the good stuff happens.”

—Melissa Harris-Perry

Professor, Author, Political Commentator

Photo: Mireya Acierto/FilmMagic.

SHERYL SANDBERG

It’s the classic chicken-and-egg problem: we need more women leaders to show more women they can lead. . . and we need to show more women they can lead to get more women leaders. I think the first thing we need to do is decide that the status quo is not okay. I really believe we can change it. We need to expect and encourage our girls and women to lead and contribute.

There’s been a lot written about what the world would be like with more women [leaders]. My view is that if all the players play, that creates more competition, and more records get broken. I just think we would perform better as a society. Plus, I want to live in a more equal world.”

—Sheryl Sandberg

Facebook COO, Author, Founder of Lean In

Photo: Alex Brandon/AP/REX/Shutterstock.

I always think it’s important for communities to join forces. You hear everybody talk about the importance of being a part of a network, a part of knowing that there are women out there who are thinking like you and moving like you and organizing like you, and who understand what you’re going through. Ram Dass talks about the illusion of aloneness, and I think that’s what we all fall into sometimes — as women, as people of color, as educators, as organizers — this illusion that we’re trying to do this all alone or that we’ll never make a difference. Coming together is what allows us to keep moving forward.”

—Kerry Washington

Actress, Activist

Photo: John Shearer/Getty Images.

“Change is like a house: you can’t build it from the top down, only from the bottom up. Whatever small change we make will be like a pebble in a pond. It will reverberate outward and it will also be fun. We’re meant to be active and contribute to the world. What’s the alternative? Just sitting there and wondering, ‘Oh, if I had just done this, maybe.…’ I’ve learned one thing: no matter how hard it is to do it, it’s harder not to do it. Then you’re stuck with wondering, ‘What if I had said…? What if I had done…?’”

—Gloria Steinem

Writer, Political Activist, Feminist Icon

Photo: Jason LaVeris/FilmMagic.

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This Cult Favorite Makeup Brand Is Launching Its First-Ever Hair Product

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We know Tarte as the eco-friendly brand that combines its ingredient-conscious mission with seriously glam packaging. Our first love was its Amazonian clay foundations, which are lightweight, medium-coverage, and didn't feel cake-y on skin. Since then, the company has launched an array of colorful, highly pigmented products — like those dreamy Color Splash Lipsticks, the strobe cream Tarteist™ PRO glow liquid highlighter, and its best-selling Shape Tape concealer (which is also getting a huge collection expansion) — that have earned Tarte its cult status among makeup fans. Now, the brand is making its way into an yet another category: hair.

We’re not surprised to see Tarte making moves in the beauty industry. (Okay, so we didn't exactly see the hair thing coming.) This summer, the company launched an entire line of makeup inspired the athleisure trend, proving that you can actually look chic while working up a sweat. It’s only natural, then, that Tarte just dropped yet another major post-gym staple: dry shampoo. Even if we never make it to that barre class we’ve been swearing we’d try for months, we still use dry shampoo for second-day hair on the regular. Not only does it add texture, it also sops up oil and gives our roots a boost when we're too tired to hop in the shower.

But here’s the best part: The one from Tarte doesn’t feel powdery. You can run your hands through your hair and not feel like there is major product build-up. And it’ll doesn't leave the telltale white chalk that other formulas do, either. This residue-free dry shampoo was formulated to blend into any hair color and prevent a dry scalp. You better believe we'll be stocking up on these vibrant bottles ASAP, which are available on the brand's website now. We suggest you do the same, because this offer is limited edition — and we have a hunch it won't be available for long.

Tarte Hair Goals Dry Shampoo, $19, available at Tarte.

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This Republican Made An Outrageous Statement About Low-Income People

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Republican congressman Jason Chaffetz has not had a good year, what with getting yelled at by his angry Utah constituents and posting the most classless Instagram about Hillary Clinton we've ever seen (and we've seen it all). But he just keeps on getting himself into hot water.

CNN reports  that when the House Oversight Committee chairman appeared on the network's New Day, he said he wants lower-income Americans to have more access to health coverage.

"But access for lower-income Americans doesn't equal coverage," pointed out co-host Alisyn Camerota.

"Well, we're getting rid of the individual mandate. We're getting rid of those things that people said that they don't want," Chaffetz responded. "Americans have choices, and they've got to make a choice. So rather than getting that new iPhone that they just love and want to go spend hundreds of dollars on that, maybe they should invest in their own health care."

Stop right there. Jason Chaffetz, are you actually telling lower-income people how to spend their own money? On top of the indignity of being stripped of their health care with the looming repeal of the Affordable Care Act, now they're being told how to budget by a politician who hasn't exactly earned their trust?

Predictably, Chaffetz was criticized on social media.

Indiana Republican congressman Larry Bucshon also rebuked Chaffetz's comments. "We don't want people to make choices in their life having to choose health care and leaving out other parts of their life that everyone else enjoys," Bucshon said on CNN Newsroom.

Later today, Chaffetz tried to clarify his statement.

"What we're trying to say — and maybe I didn't say it as smoothly as I possibly could — but people need to make a conscious choice and I believe in self-reliance," he said on Fox News' America's Newsroom. "And they're going to have to make those decisions." Easy for you to say, guy with a net worth of almost $800,000.

After many years of criticizing the Affordable Care Act, House Republicans finally introduced a replacement bill yesterday. The American Health Care Act would scrap Obamacare's individual mandate and replace it with refundable tax credits for people to purchase health insurance. The bill would also defund Planned Parenthood. The new plan is expected to leave millions who were insured with Obamacare without coverage, which may hurt its chances of being passed — oh, and the Republicans are still unsure how to fund it.

Two things we know: 1. Health care costs a hell of a lot more than an iPhone. 2. The angry people at town halls are about to get even angrier.

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Lily Collins Wrote An Emotional Open Letter To Her Dad, Phil

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Golden Globe-nominated actor Lily Collins is releasing a book of personal essays today. Titled Unfiltered: No Shame, No Regrets, Just Me, it includes plenty of personal stories and reflections on body image, self-confidence, family, the travails of dating, and much more. Vanity Fair reports that tucked in Unfiltered is an open letter to her dad, Phil Collins. Lily uses the letter as an opportunity to "forgive" her father for falling short of her expectations and what she thought a dad should be.

"I forgive you for not always being there when I needed and for not being the dad I expected," she wrote, according to the Daily Mail. "I forgive the mistakes you made. And although it may seem like it's too late, it's not. There's still so much time to move forward."

Lily's mother, Jill Tavelman, was Phil Collins' second wife. While rumors indicated that Phil broke up with Tavelman via fax, he's vehemently denied it. In her letter, Lily writes that her parents' divorce, as well as Phil's subsequent divorce with Lily's stepmother, Orianne Cevey, hit her hard and that she may have developed anorexia and bulimia to cope.

"I couldn't handle the pain and confusion surrounding my dad's divorce, and I was having a hard time balancing being a teenager with pursuing two different grown-up careers," she added. "Many of my deepest insecurities stem from these issues with my dad."

She concluded the letter by forgiving her father and acknowledging that it was time for both of to move forward together. It's a powerful sentiment, and goes to show that sometimes, writing down your feelings and facing them head-on may be the best way to work through them.

"We all make choices and, although I don't excuse some of yours, at the end of the day we can't rewrite the past. I’m learning how to accept your actions and vocalize how they made me feel," she wrote. "I accept and honor the sadness and anger I felt toward the things you did or didn't do, did, or didn't give me."

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30+ Items To Cut From Your Closet

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This story was originally published on December 17, 2015.

Out with the old, in with the new. As the end of the year rolls around, now is a better time than any to get rid of the closet-space wasters that have been taking up way too much room in your wardrobe. We're talking sorority tank tops leftover from field day, sweaters that have seen too many freezing cold days, and designer heels that are pretty much impossible to wear in. Sure, they may have some hefty nostalgic value, but if they're not being worn, they're just occupying precious real estate.

Since spring cleaning is still months away, we're taking the new year as the perfect excuse to give our wardrobes a refresh — not by adding new things, but by eliminating the old and unnecessary. Ahead, we've rounded up 30 of those pieces, from the party dress you swore you'd wear eventually (but didn't) to the clutch that may be cute (but is super impractical), to help you identify the ones that need to go.

The Shrunken Hoodie You Bought On Vacation

Let's be honest: Are you ever actually going to wear that misshapen sweatshirt you bought in the airport in [insert random tourist city here]? Our guess is no. Let it go.

Photo: Courtesy of Target.

The Trending Graphic Tee You Caved On

You don't even skate, bro.

Photo via Zumiez.

The Beat-up Work Bag You Should Have Replaced Six Months Ago

Your go-to everyday tote shouldn't look like it's been run over by a truck.

Photo: Courtesy of Azalea.

The White T-shirt That's, Well, Not So White Anymore

If your white shirt is more yellowy, it's time to toss. Now.

Photo: Courtesy of Alexander Wang.

The Black Pants That Have Faded, Desperately

We're constantly on a mission to find the darkest shade of black, so why do we keep around the pants that have turned ashen?

Photo: Courtesy of Lane Crawford.

The Sports Bra With Shot Elastic

It's not giving that much support if it's so stretched out, is it?

Photo: Courtesy of The North Face.

The Dry-Clean-Only Jacket You Decided To Launder

If you're heartbroken over the coat the washing machine ruined, we get it. But teddy isn't so fluffy anymore, and it's time to move on.

Photo: Courtesy of Coach.

The Designer Collab You Had To Have

You may have waited hours in line for the must-buy item from the fast-fashion-meets-high-fashion collection of the year (Versace x H&M, Peter Pilotto x Target, etc.), but these pieces become irrelevant even faster than they fly off the shelves.

Photo: Courtesy of H&M.

The Overly Ripped Jeans That Shouldn't Be Considered Pants

Your jeans should probably cover more than 20% of your legs.

Photo: Courtesy of Showpo.

The Too-Heavy Earrings That Leave Your Earlobes Sore

Let's be real: They just don't look or feel good.

Photo: Courtesy of JC Penny.

The Worn-In Sweater That's Pilled To The Max

It's seen too many winters and survived too many layered outfits to count — and it has the battle wounds (read: pills) to show for it.

Photo: Courtesy of ASOS.

The "Cab-To-Curb" Sky-High Heels

What's the point of buying expensive shoes you just can't walk in?

Photo: Courtesy of Barneys New York.

The Ill-fitting Trousers You Wore On Your First Job Interview

Awkwardly corporate pinstripe pants won't help you land your dream role.

Photo: Courtesy of Topshop.

The Collection Of Shabby Fast-Fashion Buys

If you have more cotton tanks than Forever 21 itself, it's time to give your selection a serious edit (and maybe pass some down to your little sis).

Photo: Courtesy of Forever 21.

The Sock That's Missing Its Sibling

Really, what are you going to do with just one?

Photo: Courtesy of Farfetch.

The Skinny Jeans That Sag At The Knees

Finding the right pair of skinnies is hard enough — but one that has completely stretched out isn't doing you any good.

Photo: Courtesy of Browns Fashion.

The Shoes That Never Fail To Give You Blisters

It doesn't how many times you try to "break them in." This is a prime example of when beauty isn't worth the pain.

Photo: Courtesy of Talbots.

The Sample Sale Score That Doesn't Fit

Was the designer dud really a major deal if you can't actually wear it?

Photo: Courtesy of Farfetch.

The Headbands From Your Blair Waldorf Phase

Good morning, Upper East Siders. Oversized bows should be reserved for toddlers only.

Photo: Courtesy of Claires.

The Novelty Item You Bought On Vacation

Cowboy boots in Texas, beach sarongs in the Caribbean...souvenirs seem like a great memento of your week of R & R, but when have you ever worn them back home?

Photo: Courtesy of Nordstrom.

The Sorority Tee You Still Wear To The Gym

If you've been out of college for more than one year, it's time to graduate past the world of neon frat tanks and into the realm of real athletic wear.

Photo: Courtesy of Dormify.

The Sparkly Dress You Bought For New Year's — But Still Haven't Worn

You meant to rock this to watch the ball drop...in 2008. If you haven't worn it by now, ask yourself: Will you ever?

Photo: Courtesy of Sonia Rykiel.

The Bodycon Dress Leftover From Your Clubbing Days

If Kim Kardashian stopped wearing them, you should, too.

Photo: Courtesy of Nordstrom.

The Too-trendy Piece That Never Could Have Been Timeless

Remember, fads fade very quickly.

Photo: Courtesy of Moschino.

The "White" Sneakers That Have Seen Too Many Puddles

Because mud-splattered kicks just aren't cute.

Photo: Courtesy of MyTheresa.

The "Vintage" Jean Jacket You Dug Up From High School

What's the point of a piece you can't move your arms in?

Photo: Courtesy of Old Navy.

The Ballet Flats With Holes In The Soles

We get it: They're super worn-in and comfy. But, they're also a tattered mess. It's time to invest in a new pair.

Photo: Courtesy of Topshop.

The Shrunken Button-down You've Convinced Yourself Still Fits

It may be a "classic" but if it's too tight in the mid-section, or bows out around the buttons, it's not worth keeping around.

Photo: Courtesy of Stylebop.

The Party Dress You Bought Au Cas Où

For the occasion you hoped would come up...but unfortunately never did.

Photo: Courtesy of Net-a-Porter.

The Wedge Sneakers

A street style staple of the past (that needs to stay there), these shoes are a prime example of a too-trendy piece that should no longer see the light of day.

Photo: Courtesy of The Real Real.

The Cut-offs You Accidentally Made Too Short

Unless you're trying to take a #belfie, these are a no-no.

Photo: Courtesy of Urban Outfitters.

The Evening Clutch That Fits Nothing

Literally useless.

Photo: Courtesy of Bluefly.

The Moth-Eaten Sweater

Face it: It's beyond repair.

Photo: Courtesy of Bloomingdale's.

Too-Old Underwear

...All of them. Every single pair. Throw them in the trash and buy a new multipack.

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This Dad Got His Daughter The Perfect Gift After She Came Out As A Lesbian

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The Christmas after I came out to my mom, I opened up the gayest gift I've ever gotten: a rainbow bracelet, a rainbow peace sign pin, and a rainbow flag pin.

She looked over at me after I opened up the gift and said, "I thought you could use some rainbow stuff."

And my eyes might have teared up a little. Maybe it was a little bit cheesy, but giving me that rainbow-filled package was also a simple and sweet way for her to show me how OK she was with me being a lesbian.

Turns out, my mom isn't the only parent to have this idea. Nev Sotelo, a 15-year-old girl from Fort Worth, Texas, got a similar gift from her dad after she came out to him, BuzzFeed reports.

“I came out as lesbian October 21, 2015. It was really hard for me because I wasn’t too sure how much of my family would be accepting,” she told BuzzFeed. “After coming out, my dad has been one of my biggest supporters.”

A couple of days ago, Nev's father bought her a rainbow umbrella to show his support.

"How adorable is it that my dad goes above and beyond to show that he accepts me," she wrote in a tweet about the gift.

Photo courtesy of Nev Sotelo.

And the writing on the umbrella puts the gift over the top. "Be you. Be true. Be Awesome," it says.

“I bought it for her because I know at her age it’s hard to be accepted in this cruel world we live in and not one moment do I want my daughter to forget that her dad loves her no matter what,” her dad, Robert, told BuzzFeed.

Cue the waterworks.

We're not the only ones crying. Nev's Twitter followers are all over this adorable tweet about her dad. And they all feel pretty much the same way we feel...overcome with emotion.

Some shared how lucky Nev is to have a supportive family, which not every LGBTQ teen has. And she couldn't be more grateful for her dad.

“My dad is a strong believer in equality, as am I," she told BuzzFeed. “He definitely is brave. He’s not afraid to speak up about things either.”

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Did You Notice This Secret Note From Last Night's Episode Of The Bachelor?

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There was a lot going on in last night's episode of The Bachelor. We bore witness to Rachel Lindsay's inevitable departure, Corinne's turn on "Women Tell All," and Raven Gates maybe sort of finally having an orgasm with a lover. With all that hubbub, it would have been easy to miss this tiny detail: Rachel Lindsay handed a note to Raven Gates on her way out the door. How do we know this? Gates herself tweeted about it.

Gates' tweet was actually in response to an astute Twitter user who took a screenshot of the note. Below, you can see the Hoxie native gripping the note (as well as that highly desired rose).

Here's what we know about the note: It's the most beautiful note Gates has ever received. Lindsay passed it to her immediately following the least dramatic rose ceremony in history. (Now that we know Rachel Lindsay will be the next Bachelorette, we didn't expect her to stay much longer.) When Chris Harrison gave his customary "say your goodbyes speech," Lindsay hugged her fellow contestants. Apparently, when she did so, she passed a note to Gates.

What could the note possibly say? We have a few theories.

1. "Dear Raven, get out while you can."

Given Nick Viall's penchant for dumping perfect women, it's possible Lindsay tossed Gates a quick warning.

2. "I bought you a vibrator. It's in your room."

We know that Gates's ex-boyfriend never made her orgasm. Now, we don't know what that means about Gates's personal sex life. It's entirely possible that she's given herself a lovely "O." But something tells us she doesn't own a vibrator. Lindsay, being a good friend, could have purchased Gates the sex toy as a courtesy.

3. "Raven, I'm still confused about Memento."

Because they watched it together in the house — making a supposition here — and Lindsay didn't get it because the film enjoys some classic mindfuckery.

4. "I'm going to be the Bachelorette and I need you to know that."

Here's a fun conspiracy theory: Did Rachel Lindsay know she was going to be the Bachelorette before she left The Bachelor? According to a segment on the Afterbuzz TV AfterShow, a producer told a personal shopper (who appeared on the podcast) that the franchise knew Lindsay would be the Bachelorette before they knew Viall would be the Bachelor. If this is true, then the note becomes very intriguing. Did Lindsay tell the rest of the girls about it? Did Gates know? Our minds are spinning.

5. "Dear Raven, I love you. I will miss you."

Most likely, Lindsay wrote a sweet goodbye note to her dear friend. One thing that routinely warms my heart about this show is how close the contestants become. The friendships always seem genuine, and that's the real love story right there.

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You May Not Need This Yearly Health Exam, After All

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If stirrups and a speculum aren't your idea of fun, we have good news. Apparently, the annual pelvic exam might not be all that necessary after all — for women who aren't pregnant and who have no symptoms of disease, at least.

On Tuesday the journal of the American Medical Association, JAMA, posted a recommendation statement that said that while a pelvic exam is usually a part of your physical exam, it's unclear whether performing these exams yearly really has any benefits (or drawbacks, for that matter).

Kirsten Bibbins-Domingo, MD, PhD, MAS, who chaired the the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force panel to evaluate advice on pelvic exams, told NPR that there wasn't solid evidence one way or another.

"We basically concluded that we didn't have enough evidence to recommend for or against," she said.

Without that evidence, the panel advised that each woman checks with her doctor on whether or not they need an exam each year, taking into account her medical history, age, and other factors. Typically, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends the exam annually for women 21 and older. But in 2014, the American College of Physicians sent out its own guidelines, arguing that such exams might not accurately detect ovarian cancer.

A pelvic exam, usually performed by an OB-GYN, checks the overall health of your reproductive system, as well as checking for cervical cancer with a pap smear. In 2013, it was found that pap smears might not be necessary every year, either.

While the federal recommendation still stands, Bobbins-Domingo told NPR that it comes down to each individual person and their body.

"If a woman has concern about anything going on with her body she should absolutely schedule a visit with her doctor, and doctors should do the appropriate exams to understand symptoms," she said.

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The Devastating Reality Of Life As One Of South Asia's "Untouchable" Women

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To be a Dalit, or an untouchable person, means being the lowest of the low in some caste-based societies.

These communities in South Asia face segregation and extreme marginalization in everything, from access to education to economic rights. They're even denied the opportunity to step into a place of worship.

In India alone, there are about 170 million Dalits, about 17% of the population, according to the National Coalition of Dalit Human Rights (NCDHR). And these caste-based social structures extend to places like Sri Lanka and Nepal, too.

Photographer Sara Hylton traveled to all three of these countries hoping to capture a slice of Dalit women's lives — the inequality they face and how they survive, but also, their hopes and dreams.

Hylton told Refinery29 she did a lot of research about the system and on specific castes in the region to prepare herself, though she's worked in the South Asia region for almost seven years. The project was commissioned by Refinery29, with the support of the NCDHR, the Sri Lanka-based Human Development Organization, and Adam Smith International in Nepal.

Her portraits are as beautiful as they are heartbreaking; an intimate look at the challenges these women face.

"Regardless of the country, the state, or the caste, they all spoke of physical or emotional abuse either by upper caste members or government authorities. The 'theme' in the way they talked about their lives was often around the issues that maintain their repression: Landlessness, segregation, being denied access to water, education, and employment," she said. "The majority of them wished to feel safe, have a home, and create a better future for their children, but most were unable to articulate how this might happen."

But Hylton cautioned against approaching these stories from a privileged point of view and believing that we may have the solution to the problems that affect these communities.

"I am very conscious about the 'white savior' concept and believe wholeheartedly in the power of storytelling alone as a tool for education and awareness," Hylton said. "I don’t profess to have any answers to these issues or to be any more advanced than these women. In fact I think in many ways the women I met are far more advanced than many of my female counterparts who are educated professionals."

These women are strong daughters, sisters, mothers, and grandmothers that champion their communities and want to provide a better world for the generations that will come after them.

"Despite the harshness of their reality, the image of the lotus often comes to me when I think of these women. The lotus, arguably one of the most beautiful flowers, emerges from deep, dirty, and murky waters – [it flourishes] despite harsh surroundings," Hylton said. "These women are like lotuses: They endure with grace, resilience, and dignity."

Pavitra Udaya Kumar, 11, is pictured in her home on Janatha estate, a private tea estate, where her family has lived for 60 years. She was born with a birth defect and is not given any help from the government. Her sister, Sonaja, is one of the few educated women on the plantation and is working as a teacher.

Pavitra’s family is one among many families currently living in a kind of bonded labor in Sri Lanka’s tea and rubber industry. Originally Dalits from India, they are not recognized as a scheduled caste and receive few benefits from the government. Families living on the plantation reported attempting to build small gardens or cow sheds where they could cultivate, but the estate management immediately destroyed their attempts to prosper.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Parvaliya Devi, 27, works at a brick factory near the village of Kusmahi, Jaharkhand. Employees at the factory, all Dalits, are paid depending on production rates and are meant to receive 500 rupees per 1,000 bricks. (The average daily production was reported between 600 and 800 per day.)

However, employees reported receiving only 500 rupees per week, approximately $7.32 USD, and they were often not paid on time. This wage does not even meet the minimum set by the government of 167 rupees per day.

"I at least feel lucky because I have my own house and cattle," she said.

Parvaliya was a rare exception, as many in the village reported being landless and having to migrate for work.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Ram Kumar Bisunkya, 34, and Sanskari, 4, are pictured in their garden in Sheshnarayan, Nepal, where they produce cauliflower, tomatoes, scallions, spinach, and coriander to be sold at the local market. Bisunkya joined a co-operative three years ago and operates the whole farm alone, waking up at 5am to water her plants.

“I feel empowered because I have my own cash. Sometimes even my husband asks to borrow money,” she said.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Sonaja Udaya Kumar, 24, holds a portrait of her grandmother on Janatha tea estate in the Nuwara Eliya district of Sri Lanka.

Sonaja’s grandmother, like the majority of Indian Tamils living on Sri Lanka’s tea and rubber plantations, were Dalits brought over during the British Raj to work as laborers. Sonaja and her family of five remain in the same household in which her grandmother lived. She is one of a small majority to be working outside of the plantation as a teacher.

“I was born into this house, my mother was born here, our family has been in this house for 60 years," she said. "I walk eight kilometers per day and make 6,000 rupees per month…My mother and father are suffering. All I want is to study well so I can get a good job."

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Rubymalik, 16, holds her baby, Rupesh, outside of her home in Barmajhiya, in the Eastern region of Nepal. Originally from Bihar, India, Rubymalik crossed the border into Nepal when she was married at 14. She misses her family and says she is no longer able to play.

"Other communities say ' doom, doom, doom '...They don’t allow us to enter any house, we are not allowed to sit together," she said. "We are the same, we are all human beings, we are the same blood, so when the upper caste dominates, it feels bad."

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Panpati, approximately 60, is pictured in Sapbarwa village, Jharkhand. Panpati and her husband are sick and unable to work, yet they do not receive old age benefits despite having put their application into the village chief.

"We are facing discrimination…We are getting only nine kilograms of rice per month in spite of a 30 kilogram ration. Other [castes] are getting 30 kilograms," she said. "The poor people will die…The government wants to kills us off by starving us."

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Taramalik, 22, pictured with her husband Surajmalik, 25, and their children Sunitamalik and Nisamalik in Bhokraha, Nepal. Taramalik and Surajmalik were both born into the Doom caste, traditionally known as the pig rearing caste, and were married at the age of 4 and 7.

"When I wake up, I think about my work and my husband. He will earn money, so I feel happy," she said. "Part of my day is finishing work early and playing with my children. Two of them are going to school and my hope is for my children to get a good government job."

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Girls of the Doom caste graze pigs in Bardaha village in Eastern Nepal. Pig farming is still considered a dirty job, mostly performed among Dalits. Villagers reported having had their pigs killed if they walked near the homes of upper-caste villagers.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Kopila Bayalkoti, 24, works as a tailor in the Dalit village of Dandathok, Nepal. Kopila has been working as a tailor for two years. Even though few Brahmin, or upper-caste members, seek her services, she is able to help in supporting her family of seven.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Pampha Parkoti, 23, (left) is pictured at the waterspout a few miles from her village of Dandathok, Nepal. Dalits of the village are not able to use the same waterspout as upper-caste communities and are forced to walk long distances each day to collect water. Since the earthquake in 2015, villagers describe the discrimination from upper-caste members as much more severe.

Waterspouts have dried up and "Dalits are considered last," explained Ram Sharan Mijar, 51. Pampha is a trained journalist, and active in Dalit and women’s rights.

“My being from a community where you can’t get into a house and drink [water] from a spout, I always wondered what it would be like to be born into a Brahmin community and how things would have been different for me," Parkoti said. "I’ve always thought about that as I work to bring change…Because of this, I always dreamed about getting into social work and bringing about change."

Parkoti migrated to Kathmandu to study where she fought all odds, including discrimination from a spinal cord injury and being kicked out of her apartment due to her caste.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Rinapiroi, 35 collects water in the village of Karobaro in Odisha, India. The village has no water pump and villagers are forced to bathe in and drink the same water, which leads to a variety of health and stomach problems.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Tangarani Santi, 42, plucks tea leaves on Alton estate in Nuwara Eliya district, Sri Lanka. Workers are expected to pluck 18 to 20 kilograms of tea leaves per day and are paid between $3 and $4 USD.

Like the majority of tea pluckers in Sri Lanka, Tangarani is a Dalit of Indian origin. Her ancestors were brought over to Sri Lanka during the British Raj to work as laborers. Sri Lanka is the third biggest tea producer in the world, but still today, most tea workers live without housing and land rights. They live in the shacks that were built for their forefathers, without running water or electricity.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Houses, also known as "line rooms," are seen on the Alton estate in the Nuwara Eliya district of Sri Lanka. These two-room, barracks-style homes were built over a century ago during British rule and continue to house plantation workers, often across generations.

It is estimated that more than 800,000 people are living on plantations throughout Sri Lanka.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

A picture of Shiva, one of Hinduism’s primary God’s, hangs on a tree near a temple where Mandal Janjati, an upper-caste Brahmin, gives blessings to worshippers near Bokraha, Nepal.

"The real Brahmin knows about caste," proclaimed Janjati, as he lectured onlookers about the Hindu scriptures and the necessity of the caste system in maintaining purity. Dalits are not allowed to enter the temple.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Ashamalik, 21, of the Doom caste, is pictured with her pigs in Bhokraha, Nepal.

"This is our life…My caste is for rearing pigs, I don’t mind this. I used to clean toilets," she said. "We don’t have any other business, what can I say about hope…My only dream is to make my own home and have my children do good work."

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Dalit women work in the rice fields near Harirajpur, Odisha.

"We are involved in daily labor for only a few days a month and then we sit and wait. We have no work to support our families…Give me the work and I will do it," one woman said.

These women were each paid 180 rupees for eight hours of labor, roughly $2.65 USD.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Sori Devi, 50, of Kolodohar, Jharkhand, is adorned in a Godna, a term used across tribes in central and eastern India to refer to traditional tattoos.

Of the low-caste Chamar group, this tattoo is inscribed among many women in the village and was traditionally used among low-caste women as a form of "uglification" to protect against the wandering eye of upper-caste men.

"I’m feeling very vulnerable at this time," she said.

Her husband has migrated, like many men in her village, for brick-making work in Uttar Pradesh and Bihar.

She added, "We are having a very horrible time because of the conditions we are facing."

Joshada Piroi, 16, from the Dalit village of Karobaro in Orissa, bathes in the river where she also collects drinking water.

"I want to be a flower cultivator," she said.

However, Joshada dropped out of school to help with household work and has no skills to support her dream. The village where she lives has no water pump and villagers report suffering from many health and stomach problems due to drinking dirty water.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Dalit women of the Doom caste fish in the Koshi river near the border of India and Nepal.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Nanpatiya Kumar, 41, plays with Jyoti, her neighbor's baby, in the village of Kolodohar, Jharkhand. Nanpatiya lost her husband three years ago due to breathing problems as she could not afford a doctor.

“If my husband would have been here I wouldn’t worry so much. Now I worry about the kids all the time. How will I get them married?” she asked.

Despite Nanpatiya’s challenges, the women of Kolodohar have found a comfort in one another as many of the men have migrated for work.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

Buddha Laxmi Sunar, 42, stands in her vegetable garden where she grows spinach, tomatoes, and cauliflower in Sheshnarayan, Nepal.

Buddha used to be involved in pig-rearing but had knowledge of tomato farming as a child and decided to take her skills to the commercial level. She was one of the first women to bring commercial farming to her village.

Photographed by Sara Hylton. @sarahyltonphoto

A girl from the Dalit village of Harirajpur chases a kite on the dried up Mahanadi riverbed in Odisha, India. This is the primary source of water for many villagers, who, living in one of India’s poorest states, must walk long distances to retrieve drinking water during the dry season.

This is the photographer's favorite image.

"I walked over to the river to breathe in some space and I immediately saw this little girl jumping up to the sky attempting to catch her kite. It was a perfect metaphor," Hylton told Refinery29. "The image to me invokes a sense of hope, dignity, and innocence — something I found in all of the women I met."

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Emma Watson Watching Her Own Harry Potter Outtakes Is Hilarious

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It's impossible to picture anyone other than Emma Watson playing Hermione Granger in the Harry Potter films. And if these outtakes are any indication, Warner Bros. definitely made the right choice.

Watson appeared on Jimmy Kimmel Live! last night, and the host had a surprise in store for the actress. Kimmel showed the audience a Harry Potter outtake — one in which you can see a young Watson mouthing Daniel Radcliffe and Rupert Grint's lines.

"You're helping them with their lines!" Kimmel said to Watson.

"You laugh — this is actually quite traumatic for me, because I created issues because of this," Watson told Kimmel. "I would ruin takes. Chris would be like, 'Cut. Emma, you're doing it again. You're mouthing Dan's lines.'"

She also admitted that the Harry Potter books were "a huge part" of her childhood life. It makes sense, then, that she'd be a bit overeager when filming scenes. "I couldn't help myself," she said. "I was such a loser, I really loved those books, I really wanted to do my job well, and I kind of overdid it."

Watson might say she "ruined" things, but I bet the producers would disagree. Saying other peoples' lines is totally something Hermione would do — Watson was just getting into character. (Plus, Watson was just nine when the Harry Potter film franchise started, so she really shouldn't be too hard on herself.)

Watson also agreed with Kimmel that her experience playing Hermione was anything but typical. "No one goes for the first audition they've ever been to in their entire life and then makes those movies for over a decade," Watson told the host. "That doesn't happen to people."

If anyone deserved the lucky break, though, it's Watson. Check out the adorable clip below.

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You Have To See These Bachelor To Bachelorette Beauty Transformations

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You might think that life as the Bachelor is one big, ego-stroking fantasy...and, well, you might be right. Not only does the lucky guy get to hole up in a mansion to find his ~one true love~ while making out with 20 people along the way, he also gets national exposure, which lends itself to some lucrative business opportunities. Not bad, right?

But the best perks, in our minds, are reserved for the Bachelorettes, who often get chosen to continue their quest for "prince charming" after experiencing unceremonious (and televised) heartbreak on The Bachelor. Not only do they get their choice of at least two dozen potential partners, they're also given their own hairstylist, makeup artist, and stylist this time around, and a chance to right their beauty wrongs from previous seasons. Because nothing will perfect your contour better than seeing it under harsh lighting on national TV.

While we're still waiting with bated breath for Rachel Lindsay 's rose photos (we have a feeling she'll go bold with a red lip — she does it so well), scroll on to see how the other women transformed between their stints on The Bachelor to The Bachelorette. Brace yourself for a whole lot of self-tanner.

Meredith Phillips

Want to be instantly typecast as the sweet, innocent one? Go with a hair flip and fresh, rosy makeup, like Meredith did back in 2004.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/BOB D'AMICO.

But we loved her choppy, chin-length bob even more. The sophisticated cut said "I'm ready to get serious."

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/BOB DAMICO.

DeAnna Pappas

In 2008, her lip gloss was poppin' and her blowout was smooth and shiny.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/KEVIN FOLEY.

But when she was running the show, she opted for textured waves, a touch of blush, and a nude lip. Damn, DeAnna.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/KEVIN FOLEY.

Jillian Harris

Her 2009 side ponytail featured big, romantic curls — and a helluva lot of hairspray.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

But she went more casual for her Bachelorette season promo, adding a pretty coral lip.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/KEVIN FOLEY.

Ali Fedotowsky

A low ponytail with a few loose pieces let her show off those dazzling, Smile Sciences-sponsored teeth.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

Ali gave off prom vibes as she began her journey to love, thanks to a sleek French twist, and well, everything else going on in this photo.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/BOB D'AMICO.

Ashley Herbert

Caramel highlights, a layered cut, and a gray smoky eye all serve as proof that in 2011, Ashley was a beauty girl through and through.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

Hello, bangs! We have to commend her for making a big change right before her season. And it looks good.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

Emily Maynard

Her platinum blond coif was almost as bright as her pearly whites back in 2012.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

She went with a warmer tone (and considerably less self-tanner) for her solo stint.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/CRAIG SJODIN.

Desiree Hartsock

Bangs and highlighted eyes were the name of her 2013 beauty game.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/KEVIN FOLEY.

By the time The Bachelorette rolled around, she had gone full-on old Hollywood glam with long, glossy S-waves.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

Andi Dorfman

Dorfman's 2013 ombré was on point.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

And her one-tone brunette color was equally striking.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

Kaitlyn Bristowe

Want curls like Bristowe's in 2015? She swears by the Bombay Hair 5-in-1 Curling Wand.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

For her Bachelorette duties, she chose a sleeker style.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

JoJo Fletcher

Texans know a thing or two about good, voluminous hair, and JoJo, seen here in 2015, is no exception.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

The girl can commit to a color theme.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Craig Sjodin.

Rachel Lindsay

"Still feel like I'm dreaming," said Lindsay, who's The Bachelorette 's first Black contestant (about damn time!), of her upcoming search for love. And as we wait for the promo photo, we'll be dreaming up all of the breathtaking looks this beauty will likely show us on her season.

Photo: Courtesy of ABC/Mitch Haaseth.

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The Biggest Truth Bombs In Ed Sheeran's Rolling Stone Cover Story

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Ed Sheeran has always been pretty boring to me — that is until I read his Rolling Stone interview this week.

The seemingly innocent British singer has had quite the career glow-up from boozy party boy to head-over-heels-in-love adult pop star. And he has the stories to prove it. But before we get into his hot gossip on waking up in bed with Taylor Swift's friends, we have to talk about one extremely off-putting quote said by Katy Perry. The 32-year-old singer has been quite unfiltered lately, dissing Britney Spears and providing uncomfortable red carpet moments, but this subtle insult may be her most damning comment yet.

Somewhere in the middle of the long, but interesting, Sheeran cover story, there's a quote from Perry about Sheeran's love life. (He currently is in a committed relationship with his former high school friend and classmate, Cherry Seabourn — he's implied that the two plan on getting married and having kids in the near future.)

Perry, who recently ended her relationship with actor Orlando Bloom, told the publication why she thinks Sheeran has been such a successful ladies man: "Everybody loves him, no one's scared of him, they want to date him. They can have him." Let's break this down. Everybody loves him — that's sweet. No one's scared of him — a solid compliment. They want to date him — nice. They can have him — excuse me? "Have him?" To me, this reads as "While he's a catch, the girls know they are better than him so he's a safe bet," which is... so fucking rude.

If a male pop star said this about a female counterpart, there would be hell to pay. To diminish a person to the idea of being had and possessed is problematic, no matter who is saying it and whether they mean it as a insult or not. In the interview, Sheeran openly talks about his insecurities and how he struggled to deal with them (often times by getting drunk after a show), so this comment feels extremely insensitive coming from Perry, a "friend." Perry really needs to considering thinking before she talks.

Beyond that, the rest of the interview is pretty fun. We pulled out the most shocking and interesting tidbits from the long profile, spelling them out for you below.

He used to hook up with Swift’s squad (and then regret it).

"I was this 22-year-old awkward British kid going on tour with the biggest artist in America, who has all these famous mates. It was very easy. … I would often find myself in situations just kind of waking up and looking over and being like, 'How the fuck did that happen?' "

He thinks Swift is the most famous woman in the world.

"She's omnipresent because she's the most famous woman in the world, so she can't make the decision to not be in the press. I always stick up for Taylor."

He drinks every single day.

"Often, I'm like, 'Is it bad that I drink almost every single day?' And then I look at my friends and most of them do the same. And they're actually worse than me. The first thing Americans say is, 'There's a problem, and you need to go to rehab.' But I don't wake up and drink. I don't depend on drink. I can go without it completely. I just enjoy going out and having fun, being 25. And I think that's a normal thing."

He has a gross signature drink (with white tequila).

"Five shots of that, and one shot of passion-fruit juice, please. Put the tequila on ice, and then let it sit for a bit. And then pour it over ice into the juice, then shake it." (The reporter confirms that he drinks more than one during their meal together.)

He says Justin Bieber is "very sober."

"He's in a very good place – very sober, very present. There's been a 180 that's happened, and there's no diva behavior whatsoever. It really suits him."

He doesn't use a smartphone.

He had an iPad and a flip phone. He's also not big on social media.

He has movies in his future.

"I want to have one in my career," he said, referencing an appearance in a low-budget indie film, like Once.

He’s in the process of forming the next One Direction.

Of the potential group he describes the sound as: “Superpop, but obviously credible. I'm gonna put three or four boys together and do all the songs, take them on the stadium tour with me."

He doesn't want his "celebrity status" to become his reality.

"It's awesome meeting famous people. But that's not life. That's not reality. One day this will fucking end. And I know the one person that's going to remain constant is Cherry. I should just enjoy this while it's there, but not let it become my reality. Because that's not the reality I want to live in."

He and his super social girlfriend spend a lot of time together and even have a secret handshake.

"One of the main points of being in a relationship with me... you have to be really fucking sociable and good at talking to people, because I will be dragged away loads at parties and events. And Cherry's perfect at it. She makes friends with everyone."

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